Postpartum Doula Care

 

trauma-informed postpartum support
in Philly and virtually

The postpartum period is one of the most profound and least supported transitions of our lives.

Postpartum doula support means you have someone present for the full picture: physical recovery, somatic and nervous system shifts, emotional waves, identity changes, and relational complexity.

You deserve care that honors who you were before this threshold,

and who you are becoming.

I support families who don’t cleanly fit into traditional, cookie-cutter parenting spaces.


I’m here for the cycle-breakers, edge-walkers, creatives, and anyone navigating a complex or unique path to parenthood without a mainstream script to follow. LGBTQIA+ families, non-traditional, kinky, or poly parents, and those navigating a full, complicated life alongside the messy reality of parenthood.

You don’t have to leave your identity, lifestyle, or full self at the door.

Whether you’re navigating the shift from autonomous being to on-demand responder, watching your home transition from calm oasis to sensory overload, or feeling your once-radical relationship slide into exhausted, traditional domestic defaults

I hold space for your complexity and anchor your identity, so you can navigate this transition without losing the fire that made you who you are.

serving Philadelphia, South Jersey, Main Line, Delco, Chester County, Bucks County, and surrounding area

Postpartum support that honors all of you

You don’t have to turn down your volume, edit your identity, translate your lifestyle, or ease me into the structure of your relationships.

My care honors your full, unfiltered world: no social masking or justification required. I’m already in your corner with grounded support that respects your life’s unique design of your life and holds the beautiful, chaotic reality of transition.

You deserve a soft place to land to process your birth experience, protect your baseline, and integrate this new chapter with the person you’ve always been.

What is a postpartum doula?

A postpartum doula is a care professional who provides holistic physical, emotional, and practical support to families during the weeks and months following birth. While medical providers focus on clinical checks, a doula’s primary focus is tending to you and your transition into parenthood.

In my practice, this care includes newborn guidance, feeding support, nourishing meal prep, and light household help – integrated with nervous system care, somatic grounding tools, and relational support to help you navigate your new landscape without losing your sense of self.

Hands-On & Virtual Postpartum Care

Postpartum care shouldn’t feel like a clinical checklist. I support your day-to-day realities and your nervous system to help you integrate this new facet of your identity.

I offer virtual postpartum support anywhere in the world, hands-on care in the Philadelphia area, and can travel throughout the USA and beyond by request.

Postpartum Support Blueprint

A foundational intro of care for your postpartum healing

The postpartum period is a full arc of healing, adapting, and integrating a new facet of your identity. This package offers a connected layer of emotional, somatic, practical, and relational support. Perfect as an introduction to my practice, to support the early weeks of your journey, or to sample options before deciding what you want next.

What’s included:

  • Initial consultation (30 mins | virtual)
  • Postpartum Integration Session (60 mins | virtual or in-person)
  • Postpartum Deep-Dive Support Session (2 hours | virtual or in-person)
  • 8 hours of Hands-On Care (your choice of overnight or daytime support)

We can always add more time or sessions to best support your rhythm. A quick breakdown of how these sessions work together is in the toggle below.

$950 | Sliding scale available | This package can also be added to your baby registry. See the full list of registries here.

Package details + logistics

A comprehensive container designed to bridge the gap between physical recovery, newborn practicalities, and your emotional identity shift.

1. Free Consultation: A zero-pressure, 30-minute virtual space to get to know each other, talk through your needs and what you’re hoping for, and ensure we are a grounded fit before making any commitments.

2. Postpartum Integration Session: A 60-minute session dedicated entirely to the emotional, somatic, and relational layers of postpartum transition. We focus on identity shifts, relationship dynamics, partner alignment, and optional birth experience processing. (See full session details below)

3. Postpartum Deep-Dive Support Session: A 2-hour deep dive into your physical, emotional, and energetic recovery. This covers everything from nutritional/herbal planning, newborn care, troubleshooting, and feeding support, and communication strategies for your family. (See full session details below)

4. Your Choice of Hands-On Support: 8 hours of practical, in-person care when you need an extra set of hands. You can book an 8-hour Postpartum Overnight so you can get deep, uninterrupted sleep while I handle night care, or split it into Daytime Support over 2 weeks for hands-on help and non-judgmental company.

Want to expand your care? Additional calls, daytime visits, or overnight support can easily be added as postpartum season evolves.

Support Calls + Sessions

Focused, flexible options you can choose at any time, based on where you are right now. Visit the pricing page for rates, package options, and sliding scale details. All sessions can also be added to your baby registry. See the full list of registries here.

Postpartum Integration

60 minutes | virtual or in-person | $125

A dedicated space to care for your internal world, and the identity shifts, relationship dynamics, and mental and emotional load that often get overlooked in the rush of practical care. If you find yourself feeling tender emotions, facing difficult thoughts, navigating relationship conflict, or fearing a loss of your sense of self, this container is meant to hold it all. A breakdown of what we can explore is in the toggle below.

We can explore:

  • Birth Experience Processing: Space to debrief a difficult birth, move through emotional layers, process stored trauma, and sort out your next steps forward.
  • Identity Integration: Navigating the profound role transitions, relationship changes, and intimacy hurdles of the postpartum threshold. We hold space for who you were before birth and who you are becoming, honoring the core of who you are and integrating your ever-expanding sense of self.
  • Somatic & Mind-Body Support: Deep-dive tools to manage stress, regulate your nervous system, and stabilize the storm during periods of change and unknowns.
  • Relationship & Partner Alignment: Structured communication strategies and sustainable boundaries to help you and your partner navigate changing family roles and reconnect.
  • Emotional Integration: Non-judgmental space for whatever is coming up, whether that’s anxiety, overwhelm, sadness, numbness, irritation, or joy. All of it is welcome.

Postpartum Deep-Dive Support

2 hours | virtual or in-person | $250

A high-impact strategy and somatic session designed for your real-time needs, blending practical guidance with grounded mind/body support. Build your postpartum roadmap and regulate your nervous system with practical tools for newborn care, physical recovery, and plenty of space to process emotional layers. You’ll leave with a concrete plan for your recovery and toolkit for your somatic self-care. A breakdown of what we can explore is in the toggle below.

We can cover:

  • Physical Recovery & Comfort: Strategic planning to support your body’s healing, including nutritional frameworks, herbal support setups, comfort tools, and self-nurturing practices.
  • Active Feeding Support: Whatever you choose and however it’s going, troubleshooting for all feeding options – breastfeeding/chestfeeding techniques, establishing a latch, optimizing pumping, and bottle feeding + formula logistics.
  • Newborn Care Practicals: Side-by-side coaching on soothing techniques, bathing and diapering options and efficient workflows, and learning to decode your baby’s unique cues.
  • Boundary Setting & Communication: Clear tools to protect your peace, manage visitor expectations, communicate your needs, and turn your relationships into a network of community support.
  • Somatic Real-Time Processing: No rigid agendas. If grief, anxiety, or exhaustion surface mid-session, we shift to regulate your nervous system and hold space for your body’s insights.

Daytime & Overnight Support

Consistent in-person care and hands-on help through your postpartum season, so you can focus on finding your footing and coming home to yourself.

Available throughout the Philadelphia area, with travel available across the East Coast, Midwest, and beyond. All packages can also be added to your baby registry. See the full list of registries here.

Daytime and overnight packages are priced at a fixed rate to honor the physical labor and time required. A limited number of equity-based slots are available each year for qualifying families. Reach out directly to inquire about availability. 

Daytime Postpartum Support

In-person support to help you recover, rest, and feel held – not just checked on. Each visit begins with a grounded check-in: what’s shifted, what’s hard, and what you actually need today. From there, we map out how to use our time together – whether that’s talking through a challenge, strategizing a tricky situation, or freeing your hands so I can handle that one thing on your list that’s been draining your battery all week. Foundation of 3 hours per visit.

  • $900 | 12 hours over 4 weeks (average 1 visit/week)
  • $1400 | 20 hours over 6 weeks (average 1 visit/week)
  • $2700 | 40 hours over 6 weeks (average 2 visits/week)

Daytime Support can also be added to your baby registry. See the full list of registries here.

Support options as you need it:

  • Newborn Care: Holding, feeding, changing, and soothing so you have time to rest, eat, shower, or just exist without being needed.
  • Emotional Presence: A non-judgmental space to vent, connect, and be met exactly where you are, with compassion always in your corner
  • Practical Household Support: Meal prep, laundry, light housekeeping, organizing, or bottle sterilization – whatever would free your mental load.
  • Logistical Support: Grocery shopping, errands, and care-package gathering so nothing falls through the cracks.

Note: If deeper somatic support, identity integration, birth processing, or relationship conflict feel at the forefront, let’s dedicate focused time to a Postpartum Integration session to fully have the space to sink in to deep work.

Postpartum Overnight Support

Full overnight doula care so you can actually sleep — not the half-sleep, one ear always open kind, but real, restorative rest. I take over through the night so you wake up with something left in you.

  • $650 | 1 night (10 hours)
  • $1800 | 3 nights over 4 weeks (average 1 night/week)
  • $3300 | 6 nights over 6 weeks (average 1 night/week)
  • $6000 | 12 nights over 6 weeks (average 2 nights/week)

Overnight support can also be added to your baby registry. See the full list of registries here.

Overnight support includes:

  • Full newborn care through the night — feeding, soothing, diapering, settling back to sleep
  • Washing, sterilizing, and prepping the next bottle so it’s always ready
  • Tracking feeds and anything notable so you wake up with overnight notes
  • A warm, steady presence so that the whole household can actually exhale

a note on what else I hold

If you’re navigating deeper identity shifts, relationship changes, or disconnection from your body or your partner after a reproductive experience, I also offer somatic trauma healing and relationship coaching. Space to re-occupy your body, process what this threshold has brought up, and reconnect – with yourself first, and with your partner when you’re ready. Learn more about somatic healing + relationship coaching.

let’s connect

Lorrae Jo, certified doula and trauma-informed somatic coach in Philadelphia

about me + my path to motherhood

I’m Lorrae (she/her), a certified postpartum doula and trauma-informed somatic and relationship coach, with over a decade of experience supporting people through identity shifts, relational healing, and life’s hardest transitions.

My path to motherhood was non-traditional, and the identity shift was still all-encompassing. My sense of self rearranged around love, responsibility, and the weight of showing up for a little human every day, which came with grief for the parts of myself that felt lost to an all-consuming role.

The role change is instant and overwhelming, even when you absolutely love it, and especially when your postpartum hormones are making it harder than expected. It’s disorienting to know exactly who you are, and struggle to integrate that self with the massive demands of your new reality.

When your world has shifted overnight, it’s completely normal for grief, exhaustion, numbness, and love to be present all at once.

my doula care + purpose

For the past decade, I’ve supported people navigating sexual trauma, intimacy shifts, and relational healing – all at the intersection of body, identity, and connection.

I felt called to start postpartum work to fill the gaps – where providers forget who we are beyond “mom” – and offer care for that transition in a way that honors all of who you are, even and especially when it’s messy.

My background in somatic and trauma-informed care shapes how I hold space for families I work with, with tools to regulate your nervous system, reconnect with your body, and honor your emotions while navigating the structural shifts of parenthood.

Our families, relationships, and identities were already complex before a baby arrived, and you deserve care from someone who can hold all of it without flinching.

My Qualifications

Certifications + Training

Birth Work + Doula Care

Psychology + Somatic Support

Reproductive Health

Workshops & Wisdom Building

Pregnancy & Postpartum

    Intimacy & Relational

    Self, Spirituality, & Shadow Work

    • Love Thyself Conference: Trauma Healing | risk awareness, trauma healing, kink as a healing modality, rituals & reiki, creating self-intimacy | Lola Jean + expert speakers
    • Seduce Your Shadow: Shadow Work Ritual Intensive | Lenore Black
    • Connect with Your Higher Self, Live with Your Heart, Awaken Your Intuition | Higher Self Yoga

    My Work in the World

    Presented Workshops & Talks

    Book Contributions & Interviews

    Selected Media & Thought Leadership

    Lorrae has been featured and quoted in

    what clients are saying

    Lorrae held space for every part of my process, grief, relief, confusion. There was never pressure to explain anything, she just got it without me having to put everything into words. It was really grounding, and helped me feel like I wasn’t doing it all alone. I came in feeling so raw and unsure, but she reminded me that I didn’t have to be strong all the time, it was okay to be sad and feel everything all at once, and okay to need support. It helped me stop spiraling and actually process my emotions. I didn’t realize how much I needed that kind of care until I had it.

    ANIKA

    I felt really nervous and overwhelmed going into it, and Lorrae helped me feel more prepared and less alone. She checked in without hovering, and I knew I could reach out at any point. Getting my questions answered and having someone to call or text when I was worried was so helpful to ease my anxieties. I wasn’t sure what kind of support I needed, but Lorrae made space for everything I was feeling. I felt safe being completely honest, and it felt so comfortable to have her there. That’s rare, and I really appreciated it.

    JORDAN

    Lorrae was incredible at walking me through the everything step-by-step. She explained all my options, helped me figure out what made the most sense for me and offered tools to stay calm and grounded throughout it. I like to have all the information, and having all that knowledge was exactly what I needed to feel really secure in my choice. She also helped me prep in advance to make it more comfortable and manageable. It was both emotional and practical support, and made me feel way more secure going into that day.

    KRISTA

    FAQ | frequently asked questions

    How do I know if a postpartum doula is right for me?

    If you are approaching or currently navigating postpartum and feel overwhelmed, isolated, or just need some extra help from someone who gets it, this support is for you. My clients usually choose to work with me becasue they want someone in their corner who can handle the physical, emotional, and relational complexities of postpartum without flinching. Whether you have a massive support system or none at all, having dedicated care ensures you don’t have to ignore your own body and identity while showing up for your baby.

    Postpartum doula vs. night nurse: What's the difference?

    A night nurse focuses almost exclusively on the infant – feeding, changing, and putting the baby back to sleep so you can rest.

    As a postpartum doula, my focus is the recovery and transition of the whole family system. While I also provide full newborn care so you can rest, I’m there to support your somatic recovery, mental health, relationship shifts, and the identity transition happening underneath it all.

    What happens during a postpartum doula visit: daytime vs. overnight?

    Every daytime visit starts with a check-in, we map out what your nervous system and household need that day. A visit might involve troubleshooting a feeding method, holding the baby while you take a long shower, prepping a nourishing meal, or doing nervous system regulation work to ease anxiety and overwhelm. There’s no standard checklist, and every visit shapes itself around you.

    An overnight shift is designed for pure rest: I take over baby care entirely through the night so you can have deep sleep, only waking you if you are chest/breastfeeding, and handling everything else so you can wake up feeling more rested. I offer 10 hour overnights (instead of the usual 8) so you can comfortably shift gears, get a full sleep, and start your morning without feeling rushed.

    Do you offer virtual postpartum support? Are you a Philadelphia doula? or Florida doula?

    Yes to all of the above. Virtual support is available anywhere in the world. In-person care is available throughout Philadelphia and surrounding areas — South Jersey, Main Line, Delco, Chester County, Bucks County, and beyond. I frequently travel to Florida and can easily arrange care there. Travel throughout the US is available by request.

    Greater Philadelphia Area Doula Support servicing:

    • Philly Neighborhoods: Center City, South Philly, Tacony, NE Philly, Germantown, Mt. Airy, Roxborough, Manayunk
    • Philly Suburbs: Delco, Main Line, Chester County, Bucks County, Montgomery County, Conshohocken, Media, Swarthmore, Upper Darby, Springfield, Chester
    • NJ/South Jersey: Cherry Hill, Voorhees, Haddonfield, Collingswood, Marlton, Medford, Moorestown, Mt. Laurel, Palmyra, Pennsauken, Maple Shade, Berlin, Mt. Holly
    • PA Surrounding Areas: Yardley, New Hope, Newtown, Doylestown, Warrington, Lansdale, West Chester, Downingtown, Exton, King of Prussia, Paoli, Blue Bell, Ambler
    • I am happy to travel to you outside these areas, and frequently travel to NYC, Central Florida, and down the east coast. Reach out and we can set it up.

    When should you hire a postpartum doula? Are you available before the baby arrives?

    Building a relationship before your world shifts can bring a lot of grounding to the third trimester and help you prepare emotionally, somatically, and practically for the postpartum period. We can use prenatal sessions to build a support plan, talk through fears, look ahead at relational dynamics, map out your postpartum boundaries, and prepare your nervous system and home for the transition before you are in the thick of it. Starting before the baby arrives means you’re not figuring out what you need once you’re already depleted.

    How long after birth can you work with a postpartum doula?

    There’s no cutoff on postpartum care. Adjustments of parenthood unfold over a much longer timeline than our culture acknowledges. Whether you are in the immediate, hazy days of week one, several months into your journey, or over a year into parenting and realize you need space to process the transition, you are welcome here.

    Do you provide LGBTQIA+ affirming, gender-affirming, and queer postpartum care? Do you work with non-traditional families?

    Yes. Queer- and gender-affirming, poly- and kink-knowledgable, body-liberated, and inclusive care for all relationship structures, identities, and family shapes is the foundation of my practice, not an afterthought. I support LGBTQIA+ families, solo parents, polyamorous and non-traditional relationship structures, lifestyle kinksters, sex workers, and anyone whose life doesn’t map onto the mainstream postpartum narrative. You never have to translate your life, identity, or your family structure to me. I’m already here for it and support you.

    What is trauma-informed postpartum care? Do you work with birth trauma?

    Yes. Trauma-informed postpartum care is a core pillar of my practice. If you are navigating the aftermath of a difficult or traumatic birth, dismissive provider, unexpected procedure, frightening complication, or a postpartum experience that feels disconnected or disorienting in your body, my background in somatic work allows me to hold space for that safely. We work at a pace that respects your nervous system and prioritizes emotional safety and body connection, without rushing you to “heal” or gloss over what happened.

    How can a doula support postpartum anxiety, depression, or overwhelm?

    Postpartum mood changes, overwhelm, numbness, and anxiety live right at the intersection of emotional care and identity. My care is entirely trauma-informed. I bring somatic and nervous system regulation tools to help you find steadiness through hard moments, and I maintain a curated network of clinical mental health providers if your care requires additional medical or therapeutic support.

    Can a postpartum doula help with formula feeding, pumping, and chestfeeding?

    Absolutely. Whether you are breastfeeding, chestfeeding, pumping, formula feeding, or combination feeding, your choices are supported without a shred of hierarchy or judgment. I can assist with latching comfort, positioning, bottle feeding logistics, pumping setup, and troubleshooting the emotional and physical hurdles that come with feeding a newborn.

    Do you offer bereavement doula support for pregnancy or infant loss?

    Yes. My care extends to all outcomes of pregnancy, including miscarriage, stillbirth, TFMR, and infant loss all fall within my scope. Grief and love can sit right next to each other in the body, and navigating the empty space after a loss requires deep, unflinching emotional and somatic support. You deserve care that doesn’t rush you, minimize what happened, feel like toxic positivity, or make you perform okay-ness on anyone else’s timeline. You don’t have to carry that isolation or heavy physical transition by yourself. Reach out directly so we can talk through what support looks like for where you are.

    Does postpartum doula care include partners and relationships?

    Yes, and they are highly encouraged to be involved. The role changes of parenting affect the whole household. My background is rooted in relational healing and intimacy coaching, so supporting communication dynamics and helping partners navigate their own thresholds alongside you is a natural part of how I work.

    How do I add a postpartum doula to my baby registry?

    Postpartum care can be added directly to your registry through cash-funded platforms like BeHerVillage, Babylist, or similar registries. It’s an amazing way to let your community fund practical and structural support for your recovery, instead of or alongside traditional baby gear. See the full list of registries here.

    How much does a postpartum doula cost in Philadelphia and New Jersey?

    My Postpartum Support Blueprint (intro package) is $950 and includes a free consultation, a 60-minute Integration Session, a 2-hour Deep Dive Support Session, and 8 hours of hands-on care. Daytime support packages range from $900–$2,700. Overnight packages range from $650 (single night) to $6,000 (12-night package). Select sessions are offered on a sliding scale — visit the pricing page for full details.

    Can I extend my postpartum doula hours or care packages after booking?

    Always. Your needs will shift as postpartum unfolds, and your support can shift with them. Additional sessions, hours, and overnight visits can be added at any point. We’ll figure out what makes sense as we go.

    What are your qualifications and training credentials?

    I’m a Certified Postpartum Doula through Birthing Advocacy Doula Trainings (BADT) and a Birth Doula and Childbirth Educator in training through Birthing From Within. I hold a BA in Psychology and Gender Studies, have 10+ years of experience as a trauma-informed sex educator and intimacy coach, and am completing Somatic Experiencing Practitioner training through SE International.

    I’m also a Certified Abortion Doula through the Colorado Doula Project, CPR/AED/First Aid certified through the Red Cross, and have 15 more pregnancy, reproductive health, and family planning certifications and trainings through Reproductive Health National Trailing Center (RHNTC).

    How do I book a consultation?

    Fill out the contact form on this page or reach out directly to schedule your free 30-minute consultation. We’ll talk through what you’re navigating, what kind of support feels right, and build a sustainable care plan from there.