Coaching with Lorrae
somatic healing. soul embodiment. unapologetic intimacy.
You’ve outgrown surface-level advice, pretending you’re fine when your chest feels tight, and craving connection while guarding your heart.
You’re ready to feel fully alive —
in your body, your truth, and your turn-on.
You’re ready for more.
More depth. More connection. More clarity in your relationships.
More trust in your body. More pleasure that doesn’t feel performative.
More truth in your voice—even when it shakes.
This is the work of becoming who you truly are.
Not in theory — but in deep, authentic embodiment.
A reclamation so deep that you feel it in your bones.
you deserve…
to feel unshakably confident in who you are
grounded in your truth, expressed in your voice, and empowered in your desires and boundaries
to be met with deep, conscious, and emotionally present love
from partners who honor your needs, communicate with care, and co-create safety, pleasure, and authentic connection
to live with joy, freedom, and aliveness in every area of your life
from your relationships to your career to the wild, playful parts of you that want to come alive
to embody your most liberated, pleasure-filled, and radiant Self
untamed, unapologetic, and deeply connected to your intuition
to be deeply valued, seen, and celebrated for all that you are
especially the parts of you that have been hidden, shamed, or told they were too much
your deep embodiment is the key to pleasure
My coaching is is rooted in helping you come home to your body, soften the noise in your nervous system, and remember the wisdom you carry —
so you can show up in love, pleasure, and life as your most authentic, embodied, empowered Self.
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coaching is for you if you want to…
Expand your pleasure and embodiment — whether you’re new to kink, exploring polyamory, navigating queer identity, integrating sex work, or dipping your toes into sacred sexuality.
Find your voice to advocate for what you truly want — with fierce self-trust, firm boundaries, and the fuel to let your desires come to life.
Navigate emotionally-charged convos with grounded communication —so you can stay connected, clear, and compassionate, even in conflict,
Dismantle shame and internalized fear — so you can feel intimacy that’s real, self-worth that’s steady, and a nervous system that actually feels good in your body.
Reclaim your erotic identity — with room to explore, experiment, and play your way into pleasure on your own terms.
Call in emotionally available, aligned relationships — the kind that feel secure & supportive, passionately alive, and grounded in growth.
Heal relational and somatic trauma patterns —so you can break free from survival mode and finally feel safe, stable, and self-connected when life gets hard.
Integrate this work into every area of your life — because nervous system regulation and deep connection to your truth transform how you show up everywhere.
about me + my coaching style
Working with me is about building safety from the inside out — not just in your relationships, but in your own body.
Intimacy that feels safe, self-trust that feels solid, and a nervous system that feels like home.
With over a decade of experience, I bring together trauma-informed care, somatic practices, and practical psychology-based tools to support your healing in a way that’s raw, grounded, and deeply embodied.
This work isn’t about “fixing” yourself.
It’s about returning to your body’s knowing, reclaiming the parts of you that were never the problem, and building the emotional and somatic capacity to live a life that is deeply, unapologetically yours.
I integrate:
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Somatic trauma resolution and nervous system regulation
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) and parts work
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Attachment theory and healing anxious/avoidant patterns
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Authentic Relating, nonviolent communication & conflict repair
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Embodiment and eros-based exploration
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Psychology, Women’s Studies, and body-based healing practices
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Coaching methodologies that meet you where you are
what my coaching includes
pre-coaching workbook + intention setting
Get clear on what you want, what’s in the way, and what shifts you’re ready to make.
Desire mapping + clarity call
Our first session will clarify your vision, define your goals, and explore the unique mix of tools and modalities we’ll use to get you there.
1:1 Sessions, Tailored to You
We dive deep with curiosity and care, working gently with your nervous system to build somatic patterns that support deep connection, confidence, and intimacy.
Personalized tools + resources
You’ll receive actionable, trauma-informed tools, from embodied exercises to communication scripts, plus personalized book, podcast, and resource recs to integrate this work into daily life.
Text + Voice memo support between Sessions
Optional real-time support between sessions for integration, feedback, and extra encouragement.
Closing integration session
In our final session, we’ll reflect, celebrate your growth, and create a plan to sustain and deepen your shifts long-term.
investment + how to begin
This is high-touch, personalized support rooted in care, built on trust, and guided by your truth.
It’s deep, integrated work that centers your nervous system. Not a quick fix, but a full-body reorientation toward the life and love that will actually fulfill you.
You’ll have me in your corner every step of the way.
In our sessions, we’ll get honest, go deep, and bring curiosity and compassion to the places you’ve felt stuck, silenced, or disconnected. Between calls, I’m here through voice, text, and email support to help you integrate and stay connected to your process.
Coaching is offered in multi-session packages, so we can create meaningful, lasting change together. Packages begin at $1000, with flexible tiers depending on your needs and support preferences.
Ready to dive in?
Fill out the application form below.
We’ll hop on a free connection call to feel into the vibe, clarify your desires, and make sure we’re the right fit.
Ready to begin?
Let’s explore whether this work is the right fit. You can book a free consult call using the form below.
what clients are saying
Working with Lorrae for over 2 years now has been a great balance of working through emotions, and having a path forward with logic. Your practices have opened my eyes, my mind, and my heart up to why I do what I do, and to not be ashamed of the coping strategies that I have – but using them as keys to unlock the other tools and resilience inside me, that my fears had been protecting for so long. Working with those keys has opened an authentic version of myself. I now have tools rather than crutches, which helps me show up as who I am and who I want to be.
I have worked with many coaches, but Lorrae’s sessions have TRULY been transformational. It’s incredible to see the big shifts I’ve made already in the short time we’ve worked together. Lorrae has shown me that I have the right to express my needs and desires, and since finding my voice, my relationships have transformed. Lorrae’s sharp insights into my own patterns, and compassionate approach to give me tools to overcome them, are nothing short of psyche-magic.
Lorrae’s coaching approach applies to all aspects of my life – career, sexuality, my relationships, friendships, and most importantly, my relationship with myself. Our work together has encouraged me to embrace my authentic truths and express myself without fear, no matter what social norms say. It’s been personally transformative and has inspired me professionally to help others through my work as well.